[I:0:J] If you have searched for a foreign bride, girlfriend or friend on line, you probably have come across a scammer or two. Those are the girls that make you think they are real, but in reality they are not. All they want is your money.
If you read my last article, I explained to you about a scammer. I also explained what to look for when talking to someone. I also wrote a little about a scammer's main goal and objective. If you missed that article, you can still read it on my blog.
Now I going to talk about what you can do to ensure the woman you are talking to is not a scammer. These methods are inexpensive and will take the worry out of meeting a foreign lady.
How do you know if the girl you are talking to is real? It is an unfortunate part of dating someone from another country, but it is also the most important part. Take my words seriously and really work on ensuring the girl is real.
There are a lot stories all over the internet about scammers and how they take advantage of men looking for girlfriends and wives from abroad. Unfortunately none of these stories ever turn out with a happy ending. Most turn out with men losing large sums of money, their identity or getting physically hurt or even killed.
Now if you are going to be searching for someone online, you must always used a recommended, reputable and secure website for your searches. Do a Google search for Elena's Models or Kiev Connections. I have worked with both owners of these websites and they are dedicated to ensuring a scam free, legitimate website. Both websites have beautiful women that are looking for men like you to build a long lasting relationship.
If you do not want to pay for the service charge for a reputable website, then you have chosen to go at it alone. Now hopefully you have met this woman through a "friend of a friend" or family acquaintance, but if not then it is very important to ask for her mobile number. No matter the financial status of your lady, she will have a mobile phone. Everyone in Europe, Russia and former states of Russia have a phone. All the women I talked to in the Ukraine had a mobile number and wanted me to call them. If the woman told me she did not have a number, then 100% of the time she turned out to be a scammer.
You will want to ask for her home address so you can send her gifts. If she says no, then wait at least a month and then ask again. Sometimes girls are shy to give out their mailing addresses. Yet after a month if she is still saying no, then there might be something wrong.
If you get an address from your girl, send her flowers and have the flower agency take a picture of her receiving flowers. If the address is correct, then she will be at the address and she will look like the girl in the picture. Cost is around $5 - $10 USD for a picture. I know of a few guys that had their girl's picture taken and she looked nothing like her picture. It is a big disappointment, but better to know up front.
If you still have lots of doubt about the girl you are talking too, then there is still one more way to remove all doubts. There are investigators that specialize in foreign fiance validity. Even if she is just a girlfriend or friend, they will find out what you need to know. They will investigate addresses, phone numbers and even take pictures of your girl. You will know 100% whether or not she is real.
If you are still having doubts and are planning to travel to meet her, you can hire a bodyguard. I know business men that hire these bodyguards, fees are negotiable. Personally if I had this many doubts about my fiance, I would chose to end the relationship and start over again. I was very relaxed the first time I met my fiance and had no doubts about her.
Be smart and go with your gut feeling. At times it can be hard to question the person you are interested in, but in the end you will be more confident and happy in your relationship with your new found love. - 20897
If you read my last article, I explained to you about a scammer. I also explained what to look for when talking to someone. I also wrote a little about a scammer's main goal and objective. If you missed that article, you can still read it on my blog.
Now I going to talk about what you can do to ensure the woman you are talking to is not a scammer. These methods are inexpensive and will take the worry out of meeting a foreign lady.
How do you know if the girl you are talking to is real? It is an unfortunate part of dating someone from another country, but it is also the most important part. Take my words seriously and really work on ensuring the girl is real.
There are a lot stories all over the internet about scammers and how they take advantage of men looking for girlfriends and wives from abroad. Unfortunately none of these stories ever turn out with a happy ending. Most turn out with men losing large sums of money, their identity or getting physically hurt or even killed.
Now if you are going to be searching for someone online, you must always used a recommended, reputable and secure website for your searches. Do a Google search for Elena's Models or Kiev Connections. I have worked with both owners of these websites and they are dedicated to ensuring a scam free, legitimate website. Both websites have beautiful women that are looking for men like you to build a long lasting relationship.
If you do not want to pay for the service charge for a reputable website, then you have chosen to go at it alone. Now hopefully you have met this woman through a "friend of a friend" or family acquaintance, but if not then it is very important to ask for her mobile number. No matter the financial status of your lady, she will have a mobile phone. Everyone in Europe, Russia and former states of Russia have a phone. All the women I talked to in the Ukraine had a mobile number and wanted me to call them. If the woman told me she did not have a number, then 100% of the time she turned out to be a scammer.
You will want to ask for her home address so you can send her gifts. If she says no, then wait at least a month and then ask again. Sometimes girls are shy to give out their mailing addresses. Yet after a month if she is still saying no, then there might be something wrong.
If you get an address from your girl, send her flowers and have the flower agency take a picture of her receiving flowers. If the address is correct, then she will be at the address and she will look like the girl in the picture. Cost is around $5 - $10 USD for a picture. I know of a few guys that had their girl's picture taken and she looked nothing like her picture. It is a big disappointment, but better to know up front.
If you still have lots of doubt about the girl you are talking too, then there is still one more way to remove all doubts. There are investigators that specialize in foreign fiance validity. Even if she is just a girlfriend or friend, they will find out what you need to know. They will investigate addresses, phone numbers and even take pictures of your girl. You will know 100% whether or not she is real.
If you are still having doubts and are planning to travel to meet her, you can hire a bodyguard. I know business men that hire these bodyguards, fees are negotiable. Personally if I had this many doubts about my fiance, I would chose to end the relationship and start over again. I was very relaxed the first time I met my fiance and had no doubts about her.
Be smart and go with your gut feeling. At times it can be hard to question the person you are interested in, but in the end you will be more confident and happy in your relationship with your new found love. - 20897
About the Author:
Art Saborio is a Fiance Visa Specialist. His very practical and easy step by step method to K1 Visa Success is now available on his site. Also don't miss out on his blog, with infomation on the "critical ins and outs" of meeting your Foreign Fiance
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