Monday, January 26, 2009

Mistakes With Your Ex To Avoid At All Costs!

By Zena P Truscott

Mistakes with your ex that you can make after a break up can make it very difficult to regain lost ground and start to mend the relationship again. If you want to give yourself the best chance of making up you must use strong discipline indeed to not make the "Fatal 5" major mistakes that most people make with their ex!

The five killer mistakes you should not make with your ex are:

* Fatal Mistake With Your Ex: - Repeatedly apologising for the same thing. When you keep repeating your apology, although you feel very sincere, repetition makes an apology seem shallow. Stop apologising right now! There is a place further down the track for a sincere apology if it is due.

* Fatal Mistake With Your Ex: - Trying to Change yourself into someone else is something you must not attempt. You are the person you are, and ultimately the person your ex wanted to be with in the beginning. Trying to change is a promise you probably just can't keep! Don't do it!

*Fatal Mistake With Your Ex: - Telling your ex that you are their one true love and that you have to be together is a mistake! Your ex doesn't think so at the moment and you need to give them space. Ultimately only they can decide who their one true love is...you will just look weak trying to make a convincing argument that it is you.

* Killer Mistake With Your Ex:- One of the most dangerous tactics you can employ is to try and convince them it wasn't your fault! With the raw emotions that accompany a break up still being fresh, you must avoid saying you are not at fault at all cost. Don't place blame on anyone's shoulders! Common sense says you have both done or said something during the break up to get to where you are.

*Major Mistake with your Ex : - Are you begging your ex to take you back? If so you must stop, and stop right now! Relationships based on begging to be given another chance or to be taken back work on guilt and, is emotional blackmail. This is a major mistake with your ex because it makes you look needy and extremely clingy. They will feel suffocated by it all.

Now that you have read the list of "Fatal" mistakes you can make after a break up, how many are you making? Behavioural statistics shown that using tactics such as the five listed here will not successfully heal a relationship. In fact, they usually drive an ex further away.

Using tactics like the killer mistakes above only make your break up more certain. What you need to use instead are positive moves that act to rebuild your relationship on firmer foundations.

The Magic of Making System up is the trusted guide for people who find they have endured a break up but still want their ex back. The system specialises in taking people by the hand and teaching them step by step what to do in order to have the best chance of making up with their lover. The information above comes from this proven system and it forms a very small part of the very detailed and important information the guide will give you

There are links below to the Magic of Making Up System, which has helped over 6000 people get back with their partners and mend their relationships. By following the link you can also access a video clip from the author of the Magic of Making Up System (TW Jackson) who has some free,helpful and real advice to listen to.) - 20897

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